I must have been absent the day they passed out the rule book. Stay with your group. Stay with the people whose skin matches yours. If you are smart; stay with the national merit scholars. Leave the athletes and the musicians alone. Choose a musical preference and don’t hang out with people who listen to something different.
Years ago, Garth had a big hit that was all about tolerance and when we all agree there will be Peace on Earth. It won’t happen. If everyone’s right; no one is and I’d rather deal with someone who can admit to my face they differ with me
and feel sad because they think that if I don’t get my spiritual ducks in a row I’ll come back in my next life as some organism that feeds on urine, than someone who just won’t be troubled to think and just believes whatever the news tells them.
Believe me, Chief, if there is a minority to take issue with, we got one in my family. Black People, Asians, Native Americans, Caucasians. ‘Christian’ Denominations that think the other guys are going to hell (yes, even within a family); got some. Murderer; got one. Pedophile; got one. Addicts;
honest to God, you can’t “swing a dead cat” we have a few. GLBT; got some. Yeah. I love all of them. (No really I don’t. I don’t know what to do with pedophiles. It just makes me mad.) But because of Jesus Christ, I have to see them differently. As people who are…people. When we say, “I’m not perfect; I am only human.” We are admitting the need and even reaching out for grace.
Grace, by definition, can only be dispensed by the offended party.
So again. We are back at the plain and simple fact that humans disagree. As a Christian. I am to love humans. In the book of James, the writer tells them to stop putting rich people in the good seats and making poor people sit behind the pole, at the back of the room, on the floor. That really does describe EVERY type of discrimination there is. Cheerleaders and AV Aides…same lunch table!!! Democrats and Republicans…same pew!!! Biker Nuns and Fashion Designers…same lifeboat!!!
There is a “good” side of town(West) and a “bad” side of town(everywhere else) here. I live on the “bad” and shop on the “good”(seriously, that’s where stuff is).
My children have brown skin.
When I shop with my children, I am ignored by staff and my method of payment is subject to excessive scrutiny.
When I am alone, I can find help easily from friendly, concerned staff. I can pay however I want and get on with my day.
Yes, America. I get profiled.
It is not limited to my shopping in nice stores. It happens at church. With the kids. I started out taking this up with the parents…”That will not be tolerated in our home. I teach my kids to be color blind. I see your kids as white.”
~sound of record scratching~
They aren’t white,
It is easier for you to choose not to see them as 100% of who they are. Because you don’t have to teach your kids the whole of what racism is. Like this joke: “They said we’d have a black president when pigs fly. When Barak Obama became president, Swine Flu.” — as told in Sunday School.
Need I go on?
If we didn’t have other cultures, we wouldn’t enjoy the rich texture and blended flavors of life. Denying your prejudices is as backward as the ubiquitous rebel flag on bumper stickers and wearing apparel available in our region.
Come on. Just say it. “I can’t see my own prejudices. I think I don’t have them, but I don’t have any real relationships with people who aren’t like me.”
Believe it or not, there was a point to bringing up Garth Brooks. The following is probably my misguided, mistaken, misinterpreted understanding of how life is supposed to be lived.
It is not okay to possess prejudices, but we can’t help it. We are human and at our very best will still tussle over who gets to be first in line. What is really NOT okay is to not deal with the difficult piece and confront and demolish wrong attitudes, behaviors, and character. You can’t take a pass. It will be a lonely walk. You will feel wild and free. You will feel the touch of grace.
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